2022 PRIDE EXPERIENCE

I have definitely come a long way from hiding my queer self since I was a kid. It took many years for me to realise that there is nothing wrong with being attracted to girls and even falling in love with one and wanting to have a future with them. We are all human and…

Floating

Do you ever feel like you don’t look forward to anything? Just living life day to day. I’ve been feeling stuck. I haven’t been able to create a working routine for myself. Ever since before the big day. Before the big day, all I was doing was preparing for it, then came the big day…

Violence

I have had my fair share of violent elements in my life growing up. Since I was a child i had witnessed and experienced my parents having the worse arguments which most of the time led to violence. They would throw things to each other and even start to wrestle each other. I can definitely…

That time I almost died

During the year of 2015 I was in the hotel industry for a few years already and I became too into it without realizing I was neglecting my health. Working as the Manager of a resort is very demanding. It takes up all of my time and requires me to be on duty all day…

Being gay in Malaysia

Malaysia was listed on the top 9 dangerous countries in the world to be LGBTQ. It’s really tough to realise what you really want for yourself with everyone around you telling you what you should want or how to live your life. Coming out and being open about our sexual orientation can be hurtful to…

Mental Health

It is very important to take care of our mental health. It’s always been a habit of mine that I would like to be as conscious as I can in my daily life. Talking to yourself is definitely a good first step. Second step is to actually find the time to meditate and make yourself…

My mother was diagnosed with ALS

My mother was diagnosed with ALS which is short for Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis. It is basically a chronic and rare neurological disease that mainly involve the nerve cells (neurones) responsible for controlling voluntary muscle movement. She was diagnosed sometime in the year of 2018. Some of you who have known me for a long time…